feat: email notifications + deadline reminder system

Database:
- notification_preferences table (user_id, tenant_id, reminder days, email/digest toggles)
- notifications table (type, entity link, read/sent tracking, dedup index)

Backend:
- NotificationService with background goroutine checking reminders hourly
- CheckDeadlineReminders: finds deadlines due in N days per user prefs, creates notifications
- Overdue deadline detection and notification
- Daily digest at 8am: compiles pending notifications into one email
- SendEmail via `m mail send` CLI command
- Deduplication: same notification type + entity + day = skip
- API: GET/PATCH notifications, unread count, mark read/all-read
- API: GET/PUT notification-preferences with upsert

Frontend:
- NotificationBell in header with unread count badge (polls every 30s)
- Dropdown panel with notification list, type-colored dots, time-ago, entity links
- Mark individual/all as read
- NotificationSettings in Einstellungen page: reminder day toggles, email toggle, digest toggle

backend/internal/integration_test.go

@@ -46,7 +46,7 @@ func testServer(t *testing.T) (http.Handler, func()) {
 	}
 
 	authMW := auth.NewMiddleware(jwtSecret, database)
-	handler := router.New(database, authMW, cfg, nil)
+	handler := router.New(database, authMW, cfg, nil, nil)
 
 	return handler, func() { database.Close() }
 }